talk about obsession! dear oh dear...
well, been there done that - obsession over a mere mortal which i thought was a perfect angel sent from heaven in a form of an 'ex'. yes, yes, he's perfect alright [or so i thought], n been so wonderful that it took me several decades to get over the heart wrenching regret that i dumped him. but it's all in the PAST.
anywaaaay... that's not what i want to talk about.
these days, i have to accomodate a terible grieve of a friend who can't get over her ex. well, not an ex actually. they never even had a date, but she told me, they just ALMOST had a date. but because of something she did, was a real turned off for the guy. and he bailed out.
and this friend of mine, cried her heart out every fuckin day, mourning, wailing, going tantrum, and regret her not so very good attitude. and she thought he was the love of her life and now that it's going to dust, she thinks that her life is over.
HELLOOOOO!!! you guys not even had a date gitu looohhhhh!!!!
this constant wailing makes me really sick. but somehow it knocks me in the head.
did i do the same complaining, mourning, and annoyed all my best friend in the past years??? have they been sick also with my - can't get over him - attitude?